Utah family takes in Ukrainian family fleeing war after meeting on social media
Aug 14, 2022, 11:32 PM | Updated: 11:42 pm
SYRACUSE, Utah — A family from southcentral Ukraine is now calling Utah their home after meeting a Utah couple online who were total strangers. That couple welcomed the family of five, plus their dog, into their Syracuse home.
Family time around the kitchen table is often time to bond and share stories. For Aaron and Cari Peterson, that time lately has been spent sitting across from Vitalii Holovchenko, Natalia Sokolviak, their two young children, and Natalia’s mother, Nadiia Zhmur.
The two families can carry on a conversation even though the Peterson’s only speak English, and aside from Vitalii understanding some English, the Holovchenko family only speaks Ukrainian.
“We often understand what each other is saying, and we’re not even speaking the same language,” Cari explained. “We can just tell what each other is saying.”
The conversation on Sunday centered around 5-year-old Dima starting kindergarten in the coming week. Aaron asked, through Google translate, if Dima wanted a bicycle.
“Yes!” Dima exclaimed. The table filled with laughter.
They may not speak Dima’s language, but what the little boy and his family were going through spoke to the Petersons after the two families connected in a Facebook group linking Ukrainians with American sponsors for the Uniting for Ukraine Program.
Aaron said Natalia sent him a message saying they were looking for a sponsor. The family lived less than a half hour from the front lines of the war, with the constant threat that Russia would attack their city, Kryvyi Rih.
The Petersons learned that Natalia and Vitalii and their two children, Dima and 11-month-old Marharyta, had to deal with emergency sirens daily as planes flew overhead. The couple owned a home, and Vitalii could often hear shooting from his backyard. They didn’t have a safe place to hide.
“Their kids were going to bed with jets flying over, and bombs flying over, and bullets– hearing the sound of guns,” Aaron explained.
“They needed to get somewhere safe, and they have children just like we did, so how could we not help?” Cari expressed.
The Petersons, who have three kids of their own, ages 14-20, quickly decided they’d not only sponsor Vitalii and Natalia’s family but also let them come live in their home.
They set up a Zoom call, because, as Cari said with a chuckle, “we wanted to make sure we were each real people.”
Vitalii had the same thought, saying they were at first scared of not knowing Aaron or his family.
But after the Zoom session, the couples decided to move forward and began planning to get the family out of Ukraine and to Utah.
The family of five packed up in Ukraine with their gigantic Cane Corso named Tony Stark and rode a train to Poland; Aaron said the trip took 24 hours. The family flew out of Poland and landed in Los Angeles at LAX.
Aaron also flew into LAX, waiting for Vitalii, Natalia, Nadiia, the kids, and the dog at the airport. It was the first time they had seen each other in person.
“When they came through, they had all their luggage, all their life possessions, and their dog on a cart wheeling out with them. And so, I was met with the opportunity of five Ukrainians, one Ukrainian dog, and lots of luggage,” Aaron recounted, chuckling. “And at that moment, I wasn’t sure how I was going to get back.”
Aaron said he and Vitalii rented the biggest vehicle they could. They managed to pack everyone in and drive 12 hours overnight from LA to Aaron’s Syracuse home.
While one of the Peterson children doesn’t live at home, the couple had to figure out how to fit everyone in along with their two teens. They gave Vitalii and Natalia their own living space in the basement, plus a couple of bedrooms.
“We were a little short on beds,” Aaron said. “Ikea is a Godsend,” Cari added, with a laugh. They also purchased toys for Dima and Marharyta and baby items like a crib and stroller.
The house may be a little cramped, but it’s obvious that there is so much room in their hearts. Cari said Vitalii and Natalia are family to them now.
“It’s been a really good experience,” Cari said.
Vitalii, Natalia, and Nadiia are building their lives from scratch. Vitalii is currently waiting for a work authorization to get a job, but Aaron explained that the paperwork is being processed very slowly.
The family hopes to find a place of their own to live eventually. They just purchased a car this week to get around on their own.
On Sunday, they had a unique opportunity to meet other Ukrainians in the same boat as them at a meetup in South Salt Lake.
The group Utah Ukrainian Community hosted what they called Happy Hour for the Ukrainians, which was an informal three-hour event at Fitts Park in South Salt Lake. Under one of the pavilions, a few dozen Ukrainian immigrants and refugees met each other and made connections.
Organizer Maryna Detsyura explained how they see new faces at each monthly meetup as more Ukrainians flee the war and arrive in Utah.
Their goal is to provide community and support, giving Ukrainians like Vitalii and Natalia an opportunity to speak their native language while helping them feel connected to their home country.
“People meet friends here, then they will be able to keep in touch with each other, and just create new friends, and create networking if they want to do something together and just, that’s kind of a great opportunity for them,” Detsyura said.
Between the South Salt Lake meetup and the Peterson home, Vitalii and Natalia expressed their appreciation as they work to call Utah their new home.
“Aaron accepts us like family,” Vitalii said, looking down at Google Translate on his phone and reading what it said in English. “They have a big heart. Thanks to such people, we are now alive and warm and safe.”
To help the Holovchenko family begin their new life, the Petersons set up a GoFundMe account* to raise funds for the family of five.
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